Maybe husbands shouldn’t pull the curtain back and see what kind of wizardry it takes to be a working mom, spouse, and life manager — “Sorry, the carpool isn’t going to work out today,” my wife informed me one morning about a month ago, “You’ll have to drive me.” “Sure, no problem.” I pleasantly answered — unaware I was about to witness a shocking, almost diabolical, and disturbing side of my wife I hadn’t known…