I had high hopes for TJ Max but you dodged a bullet. If election results spin him out of having the ability to entertain a beautiful woman on a date, then there's no way he has the composure and fortitude to manage a long-term relationship.

By God. What has happened to the mettle of men?

My suggestion? Leave the store and apps and get into the wilds. Find a small town in the woods where a man sees daily hard work as a privelidge. That's the guy whose going to tenderly appreciate a woman with hands strong enough to hold her.