I've wondered this a thousand times myself. Why are girls drawn to assholes? I'm a nice guy, I've always been a nice guy but believe me, there is plenty enough "bad" when I pull the curtain closed. Enough to keep her on her toes and holding that pulse of anticipation and thrilling charge of fear (in a good way). But for as long as I've loved girls, they have loved douchebags. I don't understand that wiring. All I can do is remind my daughter that if she brings home an arsehole, I'll be throwing him off the porch by the beltline. Smart girls, pretty girls, confident girls, lose all sense for an asshole. Perhaps girls don't stop to think that good guys, are the actually the best bad guys.