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Mild Epiphanies and Random Revelations #27

How did we get here & am I doing anything right?

Arpad Nagy
3 min readNov 4, 2022
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Mild Epiphany: “Do you ever get the feeling that you have no clue what you’re doing with life?”

This one is not from me but comes courtesy of a recent Tweet from our resident laugh factory lady, Preeti Ramachandran.

“It’s one day after the other, one step at a time with no real aim or direction?”

Then she answers her query.

“Just me? Okay then.”

In this case, that mild epiphany is funny because it comes from a seasoned adult who’s seen some sh&t, sacrificed, and suffered — for real, in real life.

And not from some hapless, twenty-something Tik Tok “model” with the handle #420GamergurlCosplayGoddess who’s finding life tough going not being able to break the 100K follower mark.

I suspect that Preeti and I share in those moments when we look over our shoulders at the life lived behind us and then get whiplash as we swing back to see where we are today.

I follow that observation with one question.

“How in the hell did I get here?”

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Arpad Nagy
Arpad Nagy

Written by Arpad Nagy

Shortlisted for 2024 Northwind Writing Award in NF/Fiction. New owner of First Line Fiction. Editor @ The Memoirist, AoE, Book Cafe, Short Place, Kitchen Tales.

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