Oh I agree. I don't write doom and gloom about my current situation, and that's the key word "current". Life is fluid. Life is good. Managing things to avoid resentment is the trick, and channeling that neglected energy in some way that falls in the grey of right and wrong. It is what it is, and that's fine. I signed up for it.
This one says it with a bit of humor. https://medium.com/hello-love/the-key-to-a-good-marriage-is-knowing-when-to-quit-d368e605b9cd
and I appreciate your comments, truly. Also, I know of this art. I watched a video of it's process. Very impressive. And she is still my favorite person too.