Pretty great piece. In the way of , “here comes a train and it doesn’t matter which switch you throw, you’re still on the track.”
Honestly, I know I’m a good husband and I care, I try . I stay in the foxhole with the fox I’ve got, but I know your words are true. Behaving is dedicated work but I still wouldn’t trust me in that unicorn scenario urban myth. For me, the key is believing my Missus sees and hears everything AND I make conscious efforts to avoid walking in minefields. And then I think of betraying my daughters trust that her father is a decent human being. Blow that bad enough and you’ve effed it all up.
But I’m still a guy and women still spin my head.