Solid poem and even stronger essay. You're a demisexual. That may be an easier lead in with the next guy. If he understands then you've checked two things off the list; 1) He's intelligent and presumably well-read, or at least curious enough to learn. 2) And, if responsive, then you know you at least have someone able to communicate at a deeper level than, "Oh, cool. So what's your fav position?"