That’s a bingo! The only time I ever lost my cool was a few years ago when our girls team was placed in a higher division due to tier alignment. We got crushed every game. The goal consistently faced over 60 shots a game (average is around 20) and one game an opposing dad was heckling put goalie, still playing her heart out. It was 16-0. I snapped. Asked him he’d like to try stopping my fists from hitting his fat mouth. Wife was unhappy with me but c’mon!!